Planning for pregnancy
What's in a baby's name?
(ARA)-Plenty, as it turns out, when it comes to welcoming your special
bundle of joy into the world, your family and your community.
When you look at popular baby names over the years, you're not comparing
apples to apples. It's more like Apples to Moxie Crimefighters—especially
when you consider some of the truly unique monikers that
celebrities' progeny are sporting these days.
Trendy titles aside, a spin through Social Security Administration records
proves that it's the classic names that tend to have the most staying power.
Back in 1904, salt-of-the-earth names like John, William, James, Mary, Helen
and Anna were the most popular. Fifty years later, James, John and Mary still
placed in the top tier, and were joined by the equally solid Michael, Robert,
Linda, Deborah and Patricia. Last year, biblical and anglophile names reigned
supreme, thanks to Jacob, Joshua, Matthew, Emily, Emma and Madison.
Fifty years from now? It's anyone's guess.
"Selecting a baby's name can be both overwhelming and exciting, especially
for first-time parents," says Matt Swanson, owner of finestationery.com, a
premier Web site for quality birth announcements. "Parents typically take
this responsibility very seriously, particularly because their newborn's name
is such a personal decision."
Experts agree that the name you select for your new son or daughter says
a lot about your upbringing, character and values — as well as your
vision for your child's future.
"The names you like speak volumes about not only your hopes and dreams
for your baby, but also about your own identity and sense of self, your
tastes and values, and your need for belonging or sense of adventure," says
Linda Rosenkrantz, co-author with Pamela Redmond Satran of several baby-naming
books, including Cool Names: for Babies
and Beyond Jennifer & Jason, Madison & Montana: What to Name Your Baby Now
.
"People who choose stylish names (Ava, Madeline, Jack, Owen) are looking
for something with a bit of an edge but still in tune with the times, while
those who opt for quirky names (Josephine, Ruby, Homer, Hugo) are often
creative and have the ability to find beauty and charm in unexpected places,"
adds Rosenkrantz. "Those who like classic names like Laura and Andrew tend
to be traditional in their attitudes and conscious of the past, while those
who choose ethnic names are obviously proud of their heritage and want to
share it with their children."
In her book The Baby Name Wizard: A Magical Method for Finding the Perfect Name for Your Baby
Laura Wattenburg notes that in the
1950s, the top ten names for boys and girls accounted for a quarter of all
babies. Today, they account for less than a tenth—illustrating
just how much parents are willing to "step outside the box" in coming up
with truly inventive names for their children.
According to Wattenberg, some of the hottest "new" names today—like
Hannah, Abigail, and Caleb—are actually the ones that sound the
oldest. She sees Celtic-inspired names like Cameron, Aidan, and Dylan
remaining popular, as well as those from other "linguistic sources" (Arabic,
Greek, Italian, Russian, and Swahili) as people continue to select from "a
global smorgasbord of names." Using masculine-sounding surnames for girls
(Emerson—nickname Emmy; Addison—Addie) is also on the rise.
As you start brainstorming name possibilities, the Internet can be an
invaluable resource. Simply inserting the phrase "baby names" into a
search engine reveals a host of sites on which you can find the origin,
gender and meaning of your top contenders within seconds. Narrow down
your selections further by sounding the names out loud (along with surname,
potential middle names and siblings' names) to make sure they flow
smoothly from every angle.
And yes, you will find the perfect name for your perfect child. All it
takes is a little time and a lot of love.
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