Labor and delivery
Doulas make sense
By Jennifer Vanderlaan
It's four in the morning and the contractions you have been feeling for the
last eight hours no longer let you sleep. You are tired, working hard and just
want reassurance that everything is going well. Who will help you find a comfortable
position? Who will rub your back? Who will place a refreshing cloth on the back of
your neck? Who will get you up to walk to the bathroom? Who will wait with you
through contractions and offer you praise when they ebb away?
If your first thought was your doctor, think again. Unless your physician is
the rare one-in-a-million, her assessment of your labor is likely to be done through
phone conversations with the hospital nurse. She will join you if there is a problem
that requires her attention or when the nurse alerts her that you are pushing. If she
is in the hospital with another patient she may stop in to see how you are doing, but
will not stay to labor with you.
If you assume the hospital nurse will labor with you, you will be disappointed.
Most hospitals require nurses to provide care for several patients.
That care includes assessment and documentation, consultation
with doctors, and administering any medications ordered. Include
a few minutes for lunch that must be worked into her busy shift.
After the tasks and paperwork, nurses have less than 10% of their
time left to provide support for laboring patients.
If you bring a friend or family member to support you, be sure they are trained
and willing to provide labor comfort techniques.
Some loved ones perceive their supportive role as being present
in the room with you. Others are well intentioned but find providing
support while you are in pain more difficult than they expected.
While some may be people you dearly love, their demeanor does
not lend itself well to providing support during labor. Many try
to offer support but are limited because of a lack of experience
and training in helpful techniques.
If you want true supportive care during your labor you need to hire a doula.
A doula is trained in labor support techniques and comfort
measures. She has the necessary experience to increase her
support as your labor intensifies. She understands the normal
process of labor, and is able to provide reassurance when you
start to feel overwhelmed.
Because your doula works for you, she is not limited by hospital scheduling policies.
She begins her support when you call her and does not stop until your baby has been born.
She spends time getting to know you before labor begins so she understands what type of
support you need and what type of labor you want.
Contrary to what you might have heard, doulas provide support for women who choose
epidurals, inductions,
cesareans or natural births. Your doula will not make decisions
for you. Instead she works with you to ensure the decisions you have made are respected.
If necessary she can help you gather information to make decisions, and can offer
insight into the birth planning process.
Instead of taking over for loved ones, doulas actually improve the quality
of support they are able to provide. Your doula is able to demonstrate
helpful techniques nd offer suggestions to your less experienced
family support. She encourages those you have chosen to labor
with you to be as involved as they are comfortable, and helps
them to be comfortable beyond their expectations.
All this support translates to a better birth experience for you. Mothers who hire
doulas are more satisfied with their labor experience, regardless of the circumstances
of their labor. Women who use doulas are less likely to need a cesarean surgery or other
labor intervention. They are more likely to be successful with breastfeeding and their
babies have fewer health problems six weeks after birth. Interestingly, women who use
doulas are also more likely to be satisfied with their partners after the baby is born
even though there is no difference in partner satisfaction before or during pregnancy.
The benefits of a doula have led one leading researcher to comment that if a doula
were a drug, it would be unethical not to use it during labor. Regardless of the type
of labor you are planning, having the continuous support of a professional doula makes
sense.
About the Author:
Jennifer Vanderlaan has been helping families prepare for childbirth since
1999. In addition to her work as a childbirth educator and a doula, she runs
www.birthingnaturally.net,
a resource for families to find the information they need to prepare to give
birth. Her materials, including three books on Christian childbirth, are used
by midwives, childbirth educators and doulas around the world.