Adoption
Adoption issues and ideas
The following is excerpted from Transition Magazine
(Summer 2001, Vol. 31-2), a publication of The
Vanier Institue of the Family and is reprinted here with
permission.
What adoption issues are most pressing in Canada today, and
what are some ideas for improving the lives of everyone involved
in doption? We asked Elspeth Ross, an educator, researcher,
Board member of the Adoption Council of Canada, and the adoptive
mother of young adults. Here?s what she told us about some issues
and ideas that have come out of her own involvement with adoption
and from listening to others in the adoption community.
- Among Canadians there is a general lack of awareness about
adoption, despite the fact that a large percentage of the population
is involved in some way.
- Provincial and federal governments need to take more responsibility
for all aspects of domestic and international adoption, and
to work together on behalf of children. We need federal legislation,
and funding for data collection, think tanks and programs like
Canada's Waiting Children.
- Canada urgently needs more research and publishing on adoption.
We lack basic data, especially on: the number of children in
care, adoption successes, children's need for a permanent home,
and the movement of children from foster care into adoption.
We can learn from the examples set by the United States and
the United Kingdom, where there are institutes for researching
adoption.
- Children can't wait indefinitely for a nurturing, permanent
home. Some children are in foster care far too long while child
welfare authorities try to determine if they can be returned
to their birth family. In the meantime, they often have to move
from one foster family to another. (For example, a child who
is a ward of the Crown in Ontario moves every two years, on
average.) Besides shortening the time before the child can be
adopted, the authorities could, when first placing them with
a foster family, try to find a family willing to foster them
for as long as necessary, and perhaps adopt them if they can't
return to their birth family.
- We need to speed up the recruitment of families for children
waiting in the system. We should also accelerate the adoption
process for families willing to adopt special-needs children.
In particular, the "home study" (a government-required screening/training
process) could be done more quickly.
- Dialogue is needed with First Nations people over child welfare
issues. Some people are against placing First Nations children
with white adoptive parents even when no other parents are available.
This concern must be weighed against the consequences for the
child of being moved from home to home and possibly never having
a permanent family.
- Transracial adoption and parenting require special consideration
of the issues around racial and cultural identity.
- Children adopted internationally have special needs due to
institutionalization, abandonment and cultural differences.
- Adoptive parents, whether they adopt within Canada or internationally,
should have access to training in how to meet the special needs
of their adopted child.
- Subsidies must be available to enable qualified, would-beparents—especially
foster parents—to adopt.
- A certain percentage of adoptions "fail." According to American
researchers, 11–18% of adoptions break down during the
probationary period. This is called adoption disruption. In
a small but worrying percentage of cases (perhaps 2%), adoptive
families can?t cope after the adoption is finalized. The child
returns to child welfare and may be readopted. This is adoption
dissolution. Both disruption and dissolution are due to mismatched
expectations and the lack of family training, support and services.
Some adopted children leave home as teens, but remain connected
or eventually reconnect with their adoptive family.
- Post-adoption support such as referrals and respite services
should be available for as long as necessary. Children with
disabilities, particularly those with Fetal
Alcohol Spectrum Disorder, require special
support and the understanding of parents and professionals.
- Adoption must be included in the curriculum for educating
professionals in social work, mental health, medicine and the
law. They also need continuing education to keep up with changing
conditions in the adoption field.
- Openness, as a foundation principle, should be reflected in
all adoption practices. Birth parents, adoptees and adoptive
parents are all entitled to accurate, complete information.
- Provincial search and reunion processes should be accelerated.
British Columbia, Newfoundland, the North West Territories and
Nunavut have opened their records through Adoption Acts that
could be models for other provinces.
- The option of placing their child for adoption should be presented
to pregnant women and especially teens. Open adoption should
be explained and supported.
- We need to respect a multiplicity of views on adoption. People
working on behalf of children, and families in the adoption
and foster care communities, must work together to further the
goals of permanency for every child, and knowledge of their
origins for children and adults.
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