Women: Sexual Mistakes to Avoid

Posted on March 8, 2009

By Francis K. Githinji

Some women do not love their own body and they are not confident about it. Men love confident people. Think about it this way: when you are confident, you are beautiful. Now stop worrying about your butt and what it looks like or the stretch marks that you have been trying to fade out for months now with no success. Relax, he is with you. Even if you are having sex for the first time, you should not worry about what you look like; you would be committing a sexual mistake. You do not have a body like Alicia Keys. So what" Get over it, and appreciate yourself. Do not think men are sexual beings and whenever you want to have sex, all you need to do is to touch their member and there, they have an erection. Take time to romance a man. Like you, they need to be aroused.

Whoever told women they needed to fake orgasm to make a man happy surely did a good job. A majority of them fake orgasm, yet they fully know they are not enjoying the sexual act. The point is you are not lying only to the man, but also to yourself. A great orgasm can be attained, but it has to start with you stopping all the fake ones you have had before and telling your man the truth. If he loves you, he will want to please you. Start by telling him what you would like him to do to you and how he should do it. This way, you will not only have great sex, but sex that is satisfying. Great sex has a lot of benefits: do not deny yourself all the benefits that come with good sex by faking orgasm and at the same time committing a sexual mistake.

Some women do not take care of themselves sexually. Just because he said you should not shave off your pubic hair, he never implied you should not trim it. Come on, girl. Who wants to perform oral sex on something he can barely see or recognize? Take care of your vagina and make sure it does not produce any foul smell. That does not necessarily mean you wash it: you should also eat some healthy food.

Another sexual mistake is not giving his man oral sex. This is very unfair, by the way. How can you expect a man to give you oral sex when you, on the other hand, cannot offer the same to him? If you love someone, you should be able to give it to them happily.

Some women can barely move their hips; they just lie there and wait for the act to be finished. That is the greatest mistake you can ever do. What are you? Sex is supposed to be a dance between two people. People in love and who enjoy each other's company. So move your body, flow with his rhythm and see what happens. You will have the best sex you ever had.

Another mistake women make is letting the man do everything from initiating sex to the actual act. Once in a while, make a man feel wanted by being the first one to make the move. Avoid sexual mistakes.

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