Safer sex

No excuse not to wear a condom

Condoms are easy to use, especially if you both understand that you need to use them. Sometimes people don't want to use a condom—that puts everyone's health at risk. More and more young Canadians say they are using a condom "most of the time."

Here are some common excuses for not using condoms… and some possible responses.

Excuse: "They don't feel good or fit properly."
Response: Let's try a different kind. If you have an allergy to latex, there are condoms made from polyurethane.

Excuse: "I'm embarrassed to buy them."
Response: I'll buy them or I know a clinic where we can get them for free.

Excuse: "I don't have one with me."
Response: I'll get one for next time, but for now, no sex.

Excuse: "I am not comfortable using a condom."
Response: I understand but they are really important - for both of us. There are directions on the condom box. Let's try them a few times and it can be part of the fun.

Excuse: "They spoil the mood. It interrupts things."
Response: We'll enjoy the mood more because we'll be less worried about pregnancy and infection.

Excuse: "You must think I have an infection or something."
Response: I have heard that some infections don't have any signs. We could ask at a clinic about testing. Let's be safe and use a condom.